What is the most unusual sexual experience you’ve ever had?
Are stockings really that unusual? Probably not for a lot of people; and really not so much for me when we just consider wearing them for something like my website or to make a video for you. But for me to push the limits of my comfort zone and introduce them as part of my work-related wardrobe ... that was exceptionally unusual (and sexual) for me.
If you remember back to what I wrote at the time, I think it really still sums up my thoughts:
One morning, I woke up before my husband, walked into the bathroom and proceeded to get ready for my day at work. Like I often do, I had set out my outfit for the day, so that I wouldn't need to disturb him while he slept. I found a little note from him stuck inside the dress I was planning to wear, along with the stockings and garterbelt. The whole thing was worth it the moment my husband walked into the kitchen to say goodbye to me before I left for the day.
I know my husband loves me, and we have an awful lot of fun together both in and out of the bedroom, but there is nothing that can mask true lustful surprise on a man's face. It's a look that goes right to my heart and knees ... and ego. After over 20 years of being together, there aren't many times left when I can see that sincere expression of delighted shock and desire. It was like watching a kid at Christmas.
Later in the day, when I revealed my fashion leap to my Office Guy the first time, his reaction was equally incredible. To stand just a few feet away from him and do the seductive hiking up of my hem, to see his eyes light up and just stare in amazement was an amazing turn-on for me. Then to allow him to touch and fondle ... still a prominent masturbation memory.
Of course, almost all of what opened the door on this was one of the other most unusual sexual experiences in my life: having an adult website ...
This is something that I would have never anticipated ever indulging in, but has certain been a big motivator and enabler in my sexual adventure. It has given me the confidence and fueled my desire to explore and push the limits.
I can't say that something like that would be for everyone - and, honestly, I'm thankful it's not.
Other things that come to mind, but may be best saved for a future blog, would include:
- Going to the swingers clubs ... that is way outside my comfort zone ...
- Finally finding the courage to turn my bi-curious status to bisexual ...
- My afternoon rendezvous with my Office Guy ... that is just something that I don't do, so for me that is beyond the limits.