The biggest factor, if in doubt, is to ask her for a nice demonstration and explanation. Assure her that it will be in her continued best interest to give you a private lesson on exactly how she manages to reach that toe-curling “O” with her own fingers.
So without further ado ...
How to make a woman feel unbelievable with your fingers.
The one thing I find that you guys simply don't understand is that the best sensation for a woman - remember I'm talking about me here - is that first two inches or so just inside the pussy. All the nerve endings are right there and that is where the greatest feeling is. Don't go jamming your hand halfway to my liver in there.
As my hubby and I discussed this, I showed him and let him play. He's pretty damn good with his hands and tongue in the first place, but this was real good too.
As I was playing with my clit, he gently stroked the bottom of the inside of my pussy with his finger. If she's lying on her back guys, gently rub the spot inside the pussy as if you are pressing down against her anus. As I was explaining this, I made the comparison to my favourite toy - my turbo rabbit. It has beads all along the base that rotate when it is inside...hence, the first couple of inches inside a woman...
Now some of us just aren't into a little love button action. Not me, though...that's the most amazing place to go. But, some of the guys I have had experience with want to get right onto it and mash it around...no...no, no...
If a guy really wants to get me into a soaking wet, squirming, begging for it all kind of situation...think timex. Gently massage that spot on the outer sides, at 10 and 2 o'clock positions. Since I am right handed, I like to work my little button on the right side, and gently massage...changing my hand speed and pressure as I go.
When my husband gets into me that way, he will sit between my legs, and run his fingers and tongue along that spot, leaving me in a twitching, moaning orgasm.
Now, for those of you who can...go get her off! LOL