The other day, for example, I read an older
article about how almost 92 per cent of women considered a man sharing a photo
of his junk in a text message with another woman outside of his relationship constituted
“cheating.”
And another statistic said that 98 per cent
of women felt that if a man had old-fashioned phone sex with another woman it
was cheating.
OK, as a woman, I can kind of see that.
But I have to wonder what men think. Not so
much what they might be thinking if they are the ones sending the photo or
making the phone call, but what do they think if it was their wife or
girlfriend behaving like that? Would the same percentage of men agree?
It’s an interesting situation for me on a
personal level as well. In the past I have shared rather suggestive photos with
men I didn’t know – until I figured it was a lot easier to tell them just to
visit my website for that kind of fun. And I have also had phone sex with a man
that was not my husband … while I was married; but that was also in the early
days of my sexual adventure and there was a lot yet to be discovered along the way.
With where my sexual psyche is at within my
marriage these days – and the fact that my husband and I have evolved in both
our relationship trust and perspective over the past 23 years – I’m not certain
that I’m a good candidate to expand on how someone might react. Frankly, if it
was my husband that was getting into all of that with another woman, I would
want to be right there holding his hand along the way!
I wonder; have women become that brave? We
hear about men initiating and participating in this kind of behavior all the
time; but they need someone at the other end to play along. And when they get
caught, it’s usually the woman who is blowing the whistle on them. Do men find
themselves on the other side of the idea very often? And if so, who are these
women they're getting involved with?
Very curious, indeed.
Andee xoxo
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