Heck, according to the headlines this morning, we can even
download apps that will help us achieve those resolutions this year.
I was reading another blog this morning while I was having
my morning coffee before work, and the writer described resolutions as vows of
guilt; promises to ourselves to erase the errors we have made the previous
year. While I tend not to make lofty resolutions, I prefer to look upon them
simple goals.
And, like many of you, those goals are rather vanilla. But,
I also know you want to know if I make any resolutions around my sex life. And,
as much as I would love to take you through a wild amusement park of debauchery
with Andee, the truth is that I don’t make firm promises when it comes to sex.
Instead, I usually take a few moments to myself and reflect on where I have
come from over the past year and where my adventure might take me.
I’m a firm believer in the mantra of “if it is meant to be,
it will be.” This past year I was able to fulfill some amazing fantasies and
become even more in touch with my own sexuality and sensuality. I found even
more personal joy and excitement in playing the role of sexy temptress both at
home and at work – although, still maintaining a healthy dose of political/HR
correctness as not to go too far over the edge.
But even those opportunities came about after years of
working towards the kind of relationship – and personal self-confidence – that I
now have. They didn’t just pop up because I vowed on January 1, 2012 that these
things would happen come hell or high water. Which is why, for me, resolutions
almost seem constraining … that if you don’t achieve them within the 12 months
given each calendar year you will somehow be considered a failure.
So, what will happen for me in 2013? All I can resolve to
say is that, no matter what the days and months bring, the adventure will
continue.
Andee xoxo
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