December 20, 2010

How To Decipher Her Flirtatious Ways

Had a very wonderful chat this afternoon with one of my friends. Part of the time we spent talking about "talking" online, which can be quite interesting. However, I have learned that it can be pretty darn difficult to flirt shamelessly with a computer keyboard. It just doesn't have the same emotional excitement to it as face to face. Anyway, it made me think about flirting and how to tell if someone is into you or not, so I looked up a few little tidbits to add to your "flirting toolbox" the next time you meet a hottie in person and want to feel her out ...

Or you could just have a little giggle with me and enjoy the drivel I keep throwing at you trying to shamelessly draw your attention to my blog ... LOL

How to tell she likes you:

  • She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.
  • Her skin tone becomes red while being around you. 
  • She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours. 
  • She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way... 
  • Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.  
  • She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance. 
  • She exposes the palms of her hand facing you. 
  • Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth... 
  • She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm. 
  • She puts her fingernail between her teeth. 
  • She laughs in unison with you. 
  • She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you. 
  • She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you. 
  • Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you. 
  • While talking to you, she rest an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up. 
  • In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you. 
  • While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes. 
  • Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face. 
  • She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours. 
  • Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you. 
  • She rubs her wrists up and down.
Interesting checklist I think ... especially since I have caught myself doing about 99% of these!


Snake said...

Nothing sexier than a great wrist! lol

Keep up the good work . . .


Andee said...

Thanks Snake ... glad you liked it, and lots more to follow