1. To spice things up in the bedroom, how adventurous are you willing to be? (select one)
a. I have never role-played before and will need a lot of instruction.
b. I have tested the waters, but never acted out anything scripted.
c. I have got my feet wet and want more!
d. Dive in head first – nothing is too deep.
Given my circumstance in life – and the fact of being in a long-term marriage – I would say I fall somewhere in between b) and c). We have done the dress-up for sex, and the occasional “let’s pretend” thing; a lot of times for my website. But I think I would enjoy the idea of bringing someone else into the fantasy of Andee and exploring a night of sexual debauchery as a threesome. Or even explore the opportunity to have them do some work with me for my website – which always has me playing the role of Andee.
2. What scenario peaks your interest most? Why?
a. Romantic and sensual
b. Playful and fun
c. Kinky! I want it all.
Again, not really a definitive answer for me, as I like both b) and c) as choices. Sex is meant to be fun and playful; and at the same time, I find myself getting more and more intrigued with the idea of adding some kink to that playfulness. I wouldn’t say I’m all BDSM, whips and chains – but enough intrigue to make it interesting.
3. Which of these is closest to your ideal setting for a fantasy?
a. A brothel
b. A dungeon
c. A bedroom
d. A prison cell
As boring as this may come across, I still prefer the idea of the bedroom for some sexual fun time versus the other options presented. There’s part of me that is just too jaded to accept the Julia Roberts’ Pretty Woman idea of prostitution ... and as previously mentioned, full-on BDSM isn’t completely appealing to me – I like the idea of a little soft bondage play, but nothing that involves stocks or St. Andrew’s crosses.
A prison cell would just depend completely on who is locked up with me ... and I have my doubts Jennifer Aniston would ever have a cellmate.
4. Which of the following toys would be prominently featured in your fantasy? (select one)
a. Feathers and whipped cream
b. Handcuffs, panty hose, and a necktie
c. Whips and chains
d. Ice cubes and a cold beer
I’ll go with b), but mostly because I know how much you guys like hosiery.
5. It is time to take your sexy self to fantasy island, which fantasy will you bring to life to rock your lover’s world?
a. The Sassy Sexy Jersey Whore – Gaudy, Flashy, Showy…totally Jersey!
b. Kinky Cook – It’s all about the spice! Heating things up in the kitchen.
c. Naughty Maid – Your feather duster will tickle more than just the dust on the shelves.
d. Doctor Love – Saving lives and breaking hearts but not before you administer a head-to-toe physical examination.
e. Frisky Fireman – A hose so long you can put out several of the hottest fires and leave a smoldering heap as proof of a job well done.
If I am doing this for my lover, I think his interest would be in the Naughty Maid scenario ...
But if this is for me, I want the firemen to come and put out my fire with their long hoses.
BONUS: Tell us about your craziest or wildest role-playing adventure.
Hmm ... well, just about as predictable as you might think from me, but my craziest role-playing adventure has been the one that I have been doing for the past decade with my online persona of Andee. While she tends to be this really sexy, confident and adventurous woman, the person behind her tends to be shy, quirky and not always as sexy as you might like to believe.