February 8, 2013

Sex | Top Reasons Why She Fucks

I found this intriguing list during one of my weekend reads. The results come from a study published a couple years ago by the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior. The research was done by two American psychologists and was narrowed down from some 237 reasons given during the course of data collection.

Just for some fun - and no other reason, for any budding psycho-analysts out there - I have bolded some of the answers that might come up on my own personal list.

Top 50 reasons women have sex:

1. I was attracted to the person.
2. I wanted to experience the physical pleasure.
3. It feels good.
4. I wanted to show my affection to the person.
5. I wanted to express my love for the person.
6. I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
7. I was “horny.”
8. It’s fun.
9. I realized I was in love.
10. I was “in the heat of the moment.”
11. I wanted to please my partner.
12. I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy).
13. I wanted the pure pleasure.
14. I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
15. It’s exciting, adventurous.
16. I wanted to feel connected to the person.
17. The person’s physical appearance turned me on.
18. It was a romantic setting.
19. The person really desired me.
20. The person made me feel sexy.
21. The person caressed me.
22. It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship.
23. I wanted to become one with another person.
24. It just happened.
25. I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex.
26. I wanted the experience.
27. I wanted the adventure/excitement.
28. The person had an attractive face.
29. The person was a good kisser.
30. I wanted to intensify my relationship.
31. My hormones were out of control.
32. I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions.
33. I wanted to feel loved.
34. The person had a desirable body.
35. I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion.
36. I wanted to communicate at a “deeper” level.
37. I was curious about sex.
38. It was a special occasion.
39. The person was intelligent.
40. I wanted to say “I’ve missed you.”
41. I wanted to keep my partner satisfied.
42. I got “carried away.”
43. The opportunity presented itself.
44. The person had a great sense of humor.
45. I wanted to improve my sexual skills.
46. I was curious about my sexual abilities.
47. The person seemed self-confident.
48. I wanted to make up after a fight.
49. I was drunk.
50. I was turned on by the sexual conversation.

Quite a few seem rather applicable when you get right down to it ... but what can I say? I'm a sexual personal and it just happens to be one of my favourite pastimes!
Andee     xoxo

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